Couples Sex & Relationship Therapy in Boulder, Colorado
Couples therapy for partners who want to find their way back to warmth and love— and actually stay there.
You're not in crisis. Not exactly. You still love each other. . .that's not the question. The question is why it's gotten so hard to feel close. Why the same argument keeps happening. Why you can go days feeling more like roommates than partners. Why the physical and emotional connection that used to feel easy now takes more effort than either of you has left at the end of the day. Why communication feels impossible at times.
Maybe there was a rupture: a life change, a loss, a season of life that took everything you had and left nothing for each other. Maybe nothing dramatic happened at all, and that's almost more confusing. How do you fix something when you can't point to the moment it stalled out?
What you do know is that you both want more than this. You haven't given up. That matters more than you might think.
You Still Love Each Other. So Why Does It Feel Like You Keep Missing Each Other?
Sex Therapy Colorado
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Navigate Intimacy Issues
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Heal the Relationship with YOU
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Create Happier Relationships
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Reclaim Yourself!
Sex Therapy Colorado 〰️ Navigate Intimacy Issues 〰️ Heal the Relationship with YOU 〰️ Create Happier Relationships 〰️ Reclaim Yourself!
Attachment Work
Brainspotting
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Trauma Informed
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Help with Sex + Porn Addiction
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Feel Empowered, In Control, Find Joy!
Attachment Work Brainspotting 〰️ Trauma Informed 〰️ 〰️ Help with Sex + Porn Addiction 〰️ Feel Empowered, In Control, Find Joy!
You Often Find Yourself Thinking…
Most couples who struggle haven't failed at love. They've run out of tools.
Nobody teaches us how to:
navigate desire differences,
repair after conflict,
or talk about the things that feel too vulnerable to say.
That's not a character flaw . It's a gap in what most of us were ever taught.
Couples work with me is honest, direct, and built on the belief that both of you deserve to be seen and heard. I’m here in service of your relationship. To that end, I do name what I see, including the dynamics, power differences, and patterns that are harder to spot from inside the relationship.
In some sessions, we'll focus on communication, how to say what you actually mean, how to hear each other without shutting down. In others, we'll go into the deeper territory: desire, intimacy, resentment, power, what you each actually need and whether you've ever said it out loud.
Somatic work and embodiment is a part of my approach. Through this, you’ll learn how to dial back using your intellect to outrun your emotions, and also learn how to be with your deeper feelings without feeling overwhelmed and flooded.
We move at a pace that fits where you are, and I'll tell you honestly when I think something is getting in the way.
My approach
Over Time, You’ll Feel Positive Shifts, Such as. . .
PHONE
720-893-0455
thebriata@gmail.com
LOCATION
Boulder, Colorado
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